The Reason I Deleted my Facebook Account

delete-deactivate-facebookOn September 5th 2016 I decided to delete (not deactivate) my Facebook account. I had an account for several years and spent a lot of time scrolling through my news-feed. Some of it was useless information, some negative and some positive.

I found my self and others sitting at the dinner table giving it more attention than who was right in front of me. I saw mothers who would tell their children. “not now I’m busy” when the child was wanting attention. Its changing us slowly in many ways but  not in good ways.

I found myself addicted. Every time I sat down, had free time or was waiting, I logged in. Every time I went out to eat I checked in. All my pictures got posted and my friends got tagged. Not much for privacy eh?

I started to use Facebook for business but found that it really is not good for business. I would be posting a lot of really good information but it was doing nothing for my website search engine rankings. I should have been posting all this on my website. The other thing is it was doing nothing for my email database. So now instead of posting on Facebook, I post a blog that automatically sends an email to my followers. This is more personal anyway.

Once I deleted it, I didn’t tell anyone just to see how many of my hundreds of “friends” would notice. As expected, only a handful of them contacted me to see what happened…. Some of them were even inspired to delete theirs and asked for my help!

Then there is the, “abandoned me” affect. Some family members went into panic and though they had lost me forever. As if they would never see me again. I had to calm them and reassure them everything was okay and that I was still alive. I reminded them that they could come see me or I could come see them. We could call each other, or even still use an old method that is still around called email.

Friends text you… “I saw you deleted your Facebook, I’ll miss your posts!” My reply… No you wont! Because you can sign up for my blog. That’s where I will be sharing everything… www.walkashamanspath.com 🙂 Then they are like… “Nice!” And I got a few winking smiling faces.

Then here comes the final, “don’t go” … “But you will miss seeing all the pictures of your friends and family.” My thought is that when we do visit in person I can pull out my phone and scroll through the pics like the old days but without the huge photo album. But imagine, if y would have already see this on Facebook, then we wouldn’t have anything to catch up on or talk about.

It’s not the end of the world. There is life after Facebook.

Here’s the link I used to delete mine… click here then click on the highlighted “let us know” link. Keep in mind, there is a difference between deleting and deactivating.

2 thoughts on “The Reason I Deleted my Facebook Account

  1. Denise Clardy

    LOVE that you deleted FB! I’m so ready to do the same, but will miss enjoying my own posts! (Embarrassing face!) I have always posted for saving for my family, but I too have become painfully addicted to this social media that isn’t very social when your out with friends! I will be giving this some thought. It may just be time for me too! Trail blazin Rebekah!

    So glad to hear your still in Sedona, and kept me on that old e-mail list!

    Denise

  2. Heather Bass

    Hi Rebekah!
    It’s so great to hear from you. I agree with you 100 percent! I deleted my account about 4 yrs ago and never looked back. People lose touch with that personal approach to friends and family and substitute that with social media. There is no substitute for face to face personal interaction. Thats when you create great memories that you can hold onto long after a person has passed on. You won’t remember what their Facebook status was, but you will remember that time you two had coffee together and talked about life. So good for you for deleting part of society’s problem and becoming part of the solution. I would love to catch up, please stay in touch!
    Heather

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